What is Pray Her Forward?
Pray Her Forward is a mentorship and discipleship ministry helping girls grow closer to Jesus, discover their God-given identity, and navigate life with biblical wisdom—while equipping women with the tools, confidence, and community to mentor and disciple the next generation. At the heart of the ministry is More Precious Than Pearls, a mentorship curriculum designed to form meaningful mentor–mentee relationships and empower women to grow in faith, confidence, and spiritual maturity—so they are prepared to lead and multiply what God is doing in their lives.
What is the format of More Precious Than Pearls?
The More Precious Than Pearls Curriculum is 262 pages and includes 12 chapters, or “sessions,” centered on 12 relatable topics young women are navigating today. The curriculum begins with a Foreword, Welcome, and Guide to the Curriculum, along with a Pre Self-Assessment before Session 1 and a Post Self-Assessment after Session 12 to help girls reflect on their growth, progress, and opportunities throughout the journey.
Each session includes Scripture, a thoughtful invitation for wisdom, a specific prayer, and carefully selected resources—such as Bible studies, books, and videos—to help deepen the experience. Sessions begin with a relatable story or personal testimony from Leighton and include “Pearls of Wisdom”: practical tips, reminders, and encouragement drawn from real-life experience.
Throughout each session, girls will also find discussion questions for mentors or group leaders and mentees to ask one another, topical Bible study and application questions, guided journal prompts, space for intentional SMART goal setting around their top three priorities, and room to reflect, take notes, and track progress.
For girls journeying through the curriculum on their own, each session can also be paired with the accompanying Big Sis Video Series—short 6–8 minute teachings from author and Pray Her Forward founder Leighton Lunger. These videos provide added encouragement, biblical guidance, and practical insight, helping girls feel supported as they move through each topic independently. The full playlist is available on the Pray Her Forward website and YouTube channel.
Tip: Download a free chapter to preview the format of a session!
Who is More Precious Than Pearls for?
The PHF Mentorship Curriculum is best for young women ages 12-25 who desire a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. It is for those who have a mentor, would like a mentor, are in a small group, or are simply looking for topical guidance from the wisdom in our pages through the help of the Holy Spirit.
What 12 topics are included in the PHF Curriculum?
The 12 topics included are:
- More Precious than Pearls (Identity)
- The Power of Prayer
- Body Image, Acceptance, + Comparison
- Stress, Anxiety, + Depression
- Health + Wellness
- Dating + Relationships
- Sex, Purity, + Self-Control
- Financial Stewardship
- Choosing a Profession/ Finding Purpose
- Idols + Temptation
- Friendships + Fitting In
- Balancing Life + Priorities
Bonus:
- Setting SMART goals for personal and spiritual development
- Guidance on writing out specific prayers
What is the curriculum timeline?
More Precious Than Pearls includes 12 topics that can be reviewed weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly! Mentees may find that there is enough content to spend multiple sessions on one topic or session. Therefore, it is up to the mentee and mentor how long they would like to spend completing the curriculum. We recommend spending one month on each session, with at least two sessions per topic. You may consider assigning at-home reading and journaling between sessions followed by review with a mentor or leader to discuss what was learned.
You can find a video with more information about recommended timeline here along with other mentor support videos!
Do I need a mentor to use More Precious Than Pearls?
More Precious Than Pearls is designed to be especially meaningful when used alongside a mentor, leader, coach, pastor, teacher, or small group. The format includes reflection questions and discussion material that invite deeper conversation, biblical guidance, and personal application.
However, girls can now also journey through the curriculum on their own with the accompanying Big Sis Series: Our 6–8 minute video teachings led by author and Pray Her Forward founder Leighton Lunger, available on the Pray Her Forward website and YouTube playlist. Each video walks through the corresponding session and provides added encouragement, teaching, and guidance—almost like having a virtual mentor alongside you.
This also makes the book a meaningful gift for a young woman who desires mentorship but does not yet have a mentor. The very first session encourages her to begin by asking, seeking, and knocking through intentional prayer and taking practical steps toward finding a trusted woman to walk alongside her.
How do I find a mentor?
Great question! Many young women desire mentorship but do not yet have a mentor, which is okay! I encourage you to follow Matthew 7:7, which says, "Ask and it shall be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you" as you seek mentorship. We believe God desires wise counsel for everyone, and if you are actively asking, seeking, and knocking, and praying, He will honor your ask! Ask church leadership, neighbors, community members, parents, and friends if they could recommend someone who would be willing to meet with you as a mentor or guide.
Don’t forget to check out our Big Sis Series, featuring short accompanying videos from author Leighton Lunger, created especially for girls journeying through the book on their own!
What if I have questions or concerns about my mentor?
If you ever have questions or concerns about your mentor and don’t feel comfortable addressing them directly, please reach out to a trusted adult. A great place to start is with a parent or guardian, a trusted family member or friend, or a church leader. Some mentees feel led to change mentors or meet with more than one, so pray and ask God for wisdom if you sense that direction.
Most importantly, if your mentor ever says or does anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or unsure, please don’t stay silent. Talk to a trusted adult right away. If you need additional support, you can also call the Focus on the Family Help Center at 1-855-771-HELP (4357).
Must my mentor be older than me?
Not necessarily! Although most mentors are older than their mentees, the goal is to find someone with more life experience who you can glean knowledge from. It is recommended that you seek mentorship from someone who has "gone before you" and has life experiences that you can learn and grow from. They also don't need to be "filled to the brim with wisdom," but should be a devoted believer in Jesus Christ and someone who is willing to listen, lead, pray you forward, and be vulnerable so that you may grow in Christ together. Pray and ask God for the right mentor for you—He always knows what and who you need!
What if I am not yet a Christian or believer in Jesus Christ?
You are welcome here! We welcome mentees of all faith backgrounds to purchase and participate in the PHF mentorship curriculum. Our curriculum and teachings align with the Holy Bible, which is the spoken Word of God, and PHF identifies as non-denominational Christian. However, all are welcomed! You can read more about PHF’s mission, vision, and beliefs at the top of this page.
If you are curious about what it means to be a Christian or are ready to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, please reach out to us on our Contact Form! We would love to speak with you!
Do you accept returns or refunds?
We hope that you are completely satisfied with your PHF purchase! However, if you have any questions or concerns about your order, please reach out to us on our Contact page.