In this episode of Pray Her Forward's The MentHer Collective, bestselling author Gary Thomas answers some of the most common questions about Christian dating—from soulmates and red flags to boundaries, sexual pressure, and God's design for relationships. Plus, I'm sharing my biggest takeaways from the Turning Point USA Young Women's Leadership Summit, including wisdom from some of today's leading Christian women on dating, leadership, and living boldly for Christ.
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Discover faith, confidence, and mentorship tips for mentees and mentors alike—helping to polish your walk with Christ and shine in all seasons.💎
Doing It Afraid: My Unqualified Testimony
I never felt qualified to lead a Bible study. I hadn’t read the whole Bible, didn’t know theology, and could barely pray out loud without stumbling. But God didn’t wait for me to feel ready—He asked me to do it afraid.
That one small “yes” changed everything.
Years later, He called me again—out of a decade-long career and into ministry. Once more, I felt unqualified. But I’ve learned this: God’s definition of success isn’t about numbers, titles, or credentials. It’s about obedience.
When we step out in faith—even trembling—He does more through our weakness than we ever could in our strength.
I Dated the Wrong Guy 🙈—and My Mentor Let Me
A story about dating the wrong guy, and my mentor allowing me to learn on my own through God's still small voice.