In this episode of Pray Her Forward's The MentHer Collective, bestselling author Gary Thomas answers some of the most common questions about Christian dating—from soulmates and red flags to boundaries, sexual pressure, and God's design for relationships. Plus, I'm sharing my biggest takeaways from the Turning Point USA Young Women's Leadership Summit, including wisdom from some of today's leading Christian women on dating, leadership, and living boldly for Christ.
Discover faith, confidence, and mentorship tips for mentees and mentors alike—helping to polish your walk with Christ and shine in all seasons.💎
A powerful testimony from a mentor mom, thoughts on fear and anxiety, and tools to find peace
Over time (and through mentorship and letting the Word heal me), I realized I was making anxiety my go-to emotion. I was choosing anxiety first because it felt familiar. I realized there will always be external factors we can’t control that we can allow to make us anxious. And on top of that, the enemy causes a spiritual resistance against the things of God and what He wants us to do.
A God-Wink in Montana: When Mentorship Isn't Coincidental
Doing It Afraid: My Unqualified Testimony
I never felt qualified to lead a Bible study. I hadn’t read the whole Bible, didn’t know theology, and could barely pray out loud without stumbling. But God didn’t wait for me to feel ready—He asked me to do it afraid.
That one small “yes” changed everything.
Years later, He called me again—out of a decade-long career and into ministry. Once more, I felt unqualified. But I’ve learned this: God’s definition of success isn’t about numbers, titles, or credentials. It’s about obedience.
When we step out in faith—even trembling—He does more through our weakness than we ever could in our strength.
I Dated the Wrong Guy 🙈—and My Mentor Let Me
A story about dating the wrong guy, and my mentor allowing me to learn on my own through God's still small voice.
Faith. Service. Country. 🇺🇸 What I learned from the American Heritage Girls
Guiding Girls to an Eternal Perspective ♾️
A Mentor’s Heartbreak: How to Respond When It’s Hard 💔
Statistics on girls' confidence that broke my heart 💔
How to Balance Love + Forgiveness with Truth + Accountability
Leading with love, grace, and the hope of salvation through Jesus is of utmost importance in mentoring. But sometimes, you may sense God prompting you to lovingly guide her away from false teaching, misconceptions about who He is, or unwise choices. Here are some reminders and practical pointers to help you navigate the harder conversations with your mentee.
💡 The 6 heart-postures every mentor needs to remember
The Heart Behind Pray Her Forward Ministry
Welcome to Pray Her Forward! I'd love to share the heart behind this ministry and my "why" to reach girls and young women for Christ!